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“The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to the inmost parts.” Proverbs 18:8 (NIV)
Get-togethers with my friends or family typically wind up the same way. The men gather by the grill or TV, and talk about music or sports. Meanwhile, the women congregate in the kitchen for some old-fashioned “girl-talk.” For women, people and relationships tend to be the common ground of conversation. We are the more emotional and relational gender. And of course we gather in the kitchen—it’s the heart of the home. Plus, that’s where the food is. After all, girl-talk is deliciously enhanced by coffee or cheesecake.However, there is a side of girl-talk that is dangerous and addictive. It’s called gossip. Why do we gossip? I believe it’s the same reason we do other things we know we shouldn’t, like flirt with the boss, or gorge ourselves on cheesecake—because it’s pleasurable. In the case of gossiping, we like the feeling of being “in the know.” At least for the moment, we can command everyone’s attention. Eyes widen and adrenalin pulses as we tell our friends the unbelievable news. They hang on our every word. Hearing gossip can make us feel almost as good as telling it—like we’ve been chosen and trusted with a secret. Gossiping feels good to everyone—except those who are the object of it. When I look inward at my own motives for gossiping, what I see is not appetizing. I see pride, carelessness and judgment. I see a self-serving attitude that likes the feelings gossip brings. Although gossip may taste good at the time, just like too much cheesecake, it can negatively affect my well-being. Gossip goes down into my soul bringing with it the weight of guilt and sin.I’ve come to realize that when I dish the dirt, or even listen to it, I’m serving dirt to my own soul.Next time the girls gather, I’ve decided I’m going to fast from gossiping. I’ve pre-decided I’ll redirect the conversation, or simply excuse myself to the bathroom when gossip arises. I don’t wish to dish or devour dirt. When my heart is sensitive to God’s, gossip only gives me a sick feeling later. I will, however, have a cup of coffee and small serving of dessert. Which would you rather enjoy—a slice of cheesecake, or dirt? Dear Lord, please forgive me for gossiping. I know that it hurts others and harms me as well. Help me be sensitive to when I’m starting to gossip and give me the courage to hold my tongue or change the subject. Fill me with words of wisdom, discernment and encouragement. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
(HOPE THAT YOU LIKED IT ALSO, HAVE A TERRIFIC DAY AND A PEACEFUL AND RESTFUL NIGHT... AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS!)
THE VIDEO BELOW AND THE NEXT CAME FROM KAREN.. THANKS FOR SHARING.. ENJOY EVERYONE.. "GOD BLESS"
Turn your speakers up..
'Challenger' is his name and (in honor of the lost space shuttle crew) he is cared for by the non-profit American Eagle Foundation (AEF).He's a 'human-socialized' bird accidentally raised by the people who rescued him - after being blown from a wild Louisiana nest in a storm as a baby in the late 1980's. Declared 'non-releasable' by federal and state wildlife Authorities, he was trained by the AEF to perform educational free-flight demonstrations at high profile public events.He's the first Bald Eagle in U.S. History that learned to free-fly into Stadiums, arenas and ballrooms during the singing of the Star Spangled Banner. The celebrity eagle has appeared at numerous major sporting events like the World Series, Pro-Bowl, All-Star game, BCS National Championship, Fiesta Bowl, Men's Final Four, etc. This eagle named Challenger has also flown before 4 U..S. Presidents!His life story is told in a children's storybook titled 'Challenger, Americas Favorite Eagle.' CLICK ON THE BELOW SITE FOR AN INSPIRING PRESENTATION: (Remember to turn your speakers on) Click here: YouTube - Bald Eagle Music Video "This Is America" (AEF)
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LOOKS LIKE THIS WOULD HAVE MADE A DELICIOUS ADDITION TO LUNCH, WISH I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT OF IT..
GOOD OLE BUTTERY CORN ON THE COB.. HEY, BUT WATCH THIS... I HOPE I REMEMBER THIS FOR NEXT TIME WE HAVE CORN STILL IN THE SHUCKS.. Subject: Fw: Shucking Corn
So Cool !! You gotta love this. http://youtu.be/YnBF6bv4Oe4--------------------------------------------------------------- AND I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU... where oh where did the weekend go? oh where oh where did it go.. we worked hard on Friday and tomorrow is Monday.. OH WHERE OH WHERE DID IT GO??? (guess I'm still on breakfast shift, I haven't heard any different) PRAY FOR MY CO-WORKER, AND HER FAMILY for the accidental (car wreck) death of her daughter.. uggg, I can't even imagine. 
JUST WANT TO REMIND YOU THAT TODAY AND EVERY DAY I'M PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOURS.. GOD'S PERFECT LOVE, GRACE, INNER PEACE, HAPPINESS, GUIDANCE, MERCIES AND OTHER BLESSINGS.. INCLUDING HEALTH, AND SAFETY! GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO WE... ======================================
KAYLA AND ANNA, THIS PICTURE IS A PICTURE OF A PICTURE TAKEN YESTERDAY AT THE SWINGING BRIDGE... WISH YOU TWO (and your parents were there with us) BUT ANYWAY, YOU ALL WERE IN OUR THOUGHTS, AND I KNEW YOU BOTH WOULD LIKE TO SEE THIS PICTURE.. SO... IT'S FOR THE TWO OF YOU.. WITH OUR LOVE, ALWAYS! 
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I read this today.. was one of my emails sent to me.. hope they don't mind if I share it.. I found it very interesting... hope you do too... "GOD BLESS!"
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